BLD: Fix regex in arm64 wheel builders

[lithomas1]

• closes #xxxx (Replace xxxx with the GitHub issue number)
• Tests added and passed if fixing a bug or adding a new feature
• All code checks passed.
• Added type annotations to new arguments/methods/functions.
• Added an entry in the latest doc/source/whatsnew/vX.X.X.rst file if fixing a bug or adding a new feature.

[phofl]

They are still building here, probably still buggy?

[lithomas1]

They are still building here, probably still buggy?

They still go, but exit early. There's no way to skip them conditionally once the job has started.

[phofl]

Ah so there is no way to skip them completely like gha?

[lithomas1]

Ah so there is no way to skip them completely like gha?

Unfortunately not. The only thing that I can skip on (before the job starts) is branches.

[lithomas1]

Looks like this works so I'm just going to put it in.

[phofl]

Thx