Narrow ContainerProperties#transactionManager type to KafkaAwareTransactionManager

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From #2775

Setting a Jpa transaction manager on the container is not really recommended; this is for a KafkaAwareTransactionManager, to properly manage Kafka transactions.

Yes, on reflection, it should only accept the narrower type; we can deprecate the old setter.

Deprecated ContainerProperties#transactionManager and add new properties ContainerProperties#kafkaTransactionManager type is KafkaAwareTransactionManager.

If change transactionManager type to KafkaAwareTransactionManager, old version KafkaMessageListenerContainer earlyRecordInterceptorandearlyRecordInterceptorwill invalid. For compatibility, add new propertieskafkaTransactionManager`.

Other transaction manager can migration to @Transactional, see https://docs.spring.io/spring-kafka/reference/3.2/kafka/transactions.html#transaction-synchronization.

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dump with #2775