diff --git a/doc/source/user_guide/basics.rst b/doc/source/user_guide/basics.rst
index 3c7d84bb866f1..f30c66d75b525 100644
--- a/doc/source/user_guide/basics.rst
+++ b/doc/source/user_guide/basics.rst
@@ -2312,6 +2312,7 @@ useful if you are reading in data which is mostly of the desired dtype (e.g. num
 non-conforming elements intermixed that you want to represent as missing:
 
 .. ipython:: python
+   :okwarning:
 
     import datetime
 
@@ -2328,6 +2329,7 @@ The ``errors`` parameter has a third option of ``errors='ignore'``, which will s
 encounters any errors with the conversion to a desired data type:
 
 .. ipython:: python
+    :okwarning:
 
     import datetime
 
diff --git a/doc/source/user_guide/io.rst b/doc/source/user_guide/io.rst
index d6a00022efb79..0d27dda3bb8ff 100644
--- a/doc/source/user_guide/io.rst
+++ b/doc/source/user_guide/io.rst
@@ -968,17 +968,7 @@ To parse the mixed-timezone values as a datetime column, pass a partially-applie
 Inferring datetime format
 +++++++++++++++++++++++++
 
-If you have ``parse_dates`` enabled for some or all of your columns, and your
-datetime strings are all formatted the same way, you may get a large speed
-up by setting ``infer_datetime_format=True``.  If set, pandas will attempt
-to guess the format of your datetime strings, and then use a faster means
-of parsing the strings.  5-10x parsing speeds have been observed.  pandas
-will fallback to the usual parsing if either the format cannot be guessed
-or the format that was guessed cannot properly parse the entire column
-of strings.  So in general, ``infer_datetime_format`` should not have any
-negative consequences if enabled.
-
-Here are some examples of datetime strings that can be guessed (All
+Here are some examples of datetime strings that can be guessed (all
 representing December 30th, 2011 at 00:00:00):
 
 * "20111230"
@@ -988,21 +978,36 @@ representing December 30th, 2011 at 00:00:00):
 * "30/Dec/2011 00:00:00"
 * "30/December/2011 00:00:00"
 
-Note that ``infer_datetime_format`` is sensitive to ``dayfirst``.  With
+Note that format inference is sensitive to ``dayfirst``.  With
 ``dayfirst=True``, it will guess "01/12/2011" to be December 1st. With
 ``dayfirst=False`` (default) it will guess "01/12/2011" to be January 12th.
 
+If you try to parse a column of date strings, pandas will attempt to guess the format
+from the first non-NaN element, and will then parse the rest of the column with that
+format. If pandas fails to guess the format (for example if your first string is
+``'01 December US/Pacific 2000'``), then a warning will be raised and each
+row will be parsed individually by ``dateutil.parser.parse``. The safest
+way to parse dates is to explicitly set ``format=``.
+
 .. ipython:: python
 
-   # Try to infer the format for the index column
    df = pd.read_csv(
        "foo.csv",
        index_col=0,
        parse_dates=True,
-       infer_datetime_format=True,
    )
    df
 
+In the case that you have mixed datetime formats within the same column, you'll need to
+first read it in as an object dtype and then apply :func:`to_datetime` to each element.
+
+.. ipython:: python
+
+   data = io.StringIO("date\n12 Jan 2000\n2000-01-13\n")
+   df = pd.read_csv(data)
+   df['date'] = df['date'].apply(pd.to_datetime)
+   df
+
 .. ipython:: python
    :suppress:
 
diff --git a/doc/source/user_guide/timeseries.rst b/doc/source/user_guide/timeseries.rst
index 78134872fa4b8..7e1368061322b 100644
--- a/doc/source/user_guide/timeseries.rst
+++ b/doc/source/user_guide/timeseries.rst
@@ -132,6 +132,8 @@ time.
 
 .. ipython:: python
 
+   import datetime
+
    pd.Timestamp(datetime.datetime(2012, 5, 1))
    pd.Timestamp("2012-05-01")
    pd.Timestamp(2012, 5, 1)
@@ -196,26 +198,25 @@ is converted to a ``DatetimeIndex``:
 
 .. ipython:: python
 
-    pd.to_datetime(pd.Series(["Jul 31, 2009", "2010-01-10", None]))
+    pd.to_datetime(pd.Series(["Jul 31, 2009", "Jan 10, 2010", None]))
 
-    pd.to_datetime(["2005/11/23", "2010.12.31"])
+    pd.to_datetime(["2005/11/23", "2010/12/31"])
 
 If you use dates which start with the day first (i.e. European style),
 you can pass the ``dayfirst`` flag:
 
 .. ipython:: python
-   :okwarning:
+    :okwarning:
 
     pd.to_datetime(["04-01-2012 10:00"], dayfirst=True)
 
-    pd.to_datetime(["14-01-2012", "01-14-2012"], dayfirst=True)
+    pd.to_datetime(["04-14-2012 10:00"], dayfirst=True)
 
 .. warning::
 
    You see in the above example that ``dayfirst`` isn't strict. If a date
    can't be parsed with the day being first it will be parsed as if
-   ``dayfirst`` were False, and in the case of parsing delimited date strings
-   (e.g. ``31-12-2012``) then a warning will also be raised.
+   ``dayfirst`` were ``False`` and a warning will also be raised.
 
 If you pass a single string to ``to_datetime``, it returns a single ``Timestamp``.
 ``Timestamp`` can also accept string input, but it doesn't accept string parsing
diff --git a/doc/source/whatsnew/v2.0.0.rst b/doc/source/whatsnew/v2.0.0.rst
index 3d0d6bc5d27f2..4d3b2548f5fc5 100644
--- a/doc/source/whatsnew/v2.0.0.rst
+++ b/doc/source/whatsnew/v2.0.0.rst
@@ -411,6 +411,38 @@ Optional libraries below the lowest tested version may still work, but are not c
 
 See :ref:`install.dependencies` and :ref:`install.optional_dependencies` for more.
 
+Datetimes are now parsed with a consistent format
+^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
+
+In the past, :func:`to_datetime` guessed the format for each element independently. This was appropriate for some cases where elements had mixed date formats - however, it would regularly cause problems when users expected a consistent format but the function would switch formats between elements. As of version 2.0.0, parsing will use a consistent format, determined by the first non-NA value (unless the user specifies a format, in which case that is used).
+
+*Old behavior*:
+
+  .. code-block:: ipython
+
+     In [1]: ser = pd.Series(['13-01-2000', '12-01-2000'])
+     In [2]: pd.to_datetime(ser)
+     Out[2]:
+     0   2000-01-13
+     1   2000-12-01
+     dtype: datetime64[ns]
+
+*New behavior*:
+
+  .. ipython:: python
+    :okwarning:
+
+     ser = pd.Series(['13-01-2000', '12-01-2000'])
+     pd.to_datetime(ser)
+
+Note that this affects :func:`read_csv` as well.
+
+If you still need to parse dates with inconsistent formats, you'll need to apply :func:`to_datetime`
+to each element individually, e.g. ::
+
+     ser = pd.Series(['13-01-2000', '12 January 2000'])
+     ser.apply(pd.to_datetime)
+
 .. _whatsnew_200.api_breaking.other:
 
 Other API changes
@@ -453,7 +485,7 @@ Other API changes
 
 Deprecations
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~
--
+- Deprecated argument ``infer_datetime_format`` in :func:`to_datetime` and :func:`read_csv`, as a strict version of it is now the default (:issue:`48621`)
 
 .. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------
 
diff --git a/pandas/_libs/tslibs/parsing.pyx b/pandas/_libs/tslibs/parsing.pyx
index 7ae6dad58a1d9..83f03f94d2fad 100644
--- a/pandas/_libs/tslibs/parsing.pyx
+++ b/pandas/_libs/tslibs/parsing.pyx
@@ -1032,6 +1032,7 @@ def guess_datetime_format(dt_str: str, bint dayfirst=False) -> str | None:
     # rebuild string, capturing any inferred padding
     dt_str = "".join(tokens)
     if parsed_datetime.strftime(guessed_format) == dt_str:
+        _maybe_warn_about_dayfirst(guessed_format, dayfirst)
         return guessed_format
     else:
         return None
@@ -1051,6 +1052,28 @@ cdef str _fill_token(token: str, padding: int):
         token_filled = f"{seconds}.{nanoseconds}"
     return token_filled
 
+cdef void _maybe_warn_about_dayfirst(format: str, bint dayfirst):
+    """Warn if guessed datetime format doesn't respect dayfirst argument."""
+    cdef:
+        int day_index = format.find("%d")
+        int month_index = format.find("%m")
+
+    if (day_index != -1) and (month_index != -1):
+        if (day_index > month_index) and dayfirst:
+            warnings.warn(
+                f"Parsing dates in {format} format when dayfirst=True was specified. "
+                "Pass `dayfirst=False` or specify a format to silence this warning.",
+                UserWarning,
+                stacklevel=find_stack_level(),
+            )
+        if (day_index < month_index) and not dayfirst:
+            warnings.warn(
+                f"Parsing dates in {format} format when dayfirst=False was specified. "
+                "Pass `dayfirst=True` or specify a format to silence this warning.",
+                UserWarning,
+                stacklevel=find_stack_level(),
+            )
+
 
 @cython.wraparound(False)
 @cython.boundscheck(False)
diff --git a/pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py b/pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py
index 263881f38b1fa..595d13b95fe12 100644
--- a/pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py
+++ b/pandas/core/tools/datetimes.py
@@ -15,10 +15,14 @@
     cast,
     overload,
 )
+import warnings
 
 import numpy as np
 
-from pandas._libs import tslib
+from pandas._libs import (
+    lib,
+    tslib,
+)
 from pandas._libs.tslibs import (
     OutOfBoundsDatetime,
     Timedelta,
@@ -40,6 +44,7 @@
     DateTimeErrorChoices,
     npt,
 )
+from pandas.util._exceptions import find_stack_level
 
 from pandas.core.dtypes.common import (
     ensure_object,
@@ -126,7 +131,18 @@ def _guess_datetime_format_for_array(arr, dayfirst: bool | None = False) -> str
     if (first_non_null := tslib.first_non_null(arr)) != -1:
         if type(first_non_nan_element := arr[first_non_null]) is str:
             # GH#32264 np.str_ object
-            return guess_datetime_format(first_non_nan_element, dayfirst=dayfirst)
+            guessed_format = guess_datetime_format(
+                first_non_nan_element, dayfirst=dayfirst
+            )
+            if guessed_format is not None:
+                return guessed_format
+            warnings.warn(
+                "Could not infer format, so each element will be parsed "
+                "individually by `dateutil`. To ensure parsing is "
+                "consistent and as-expected, please specify a format.",
+                UserWarning,
+                stacklevel=find_stack_level(),
+            )
     return None
 
 
@@ -334,7 +350,6 @@ def _convert_listlike_datetimes(
     utc: bool = False,
     unit: str | None = None,
     errors: DateTimeErrorChoices = "raise",
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = False,
     dayfirst: bool | None = None,
     yearfirst: bool | None = None,
     exact: bool = True,
@@ -355,8 +370,6 @@ def _convert_listlike_datetimes(
         None or string of the frequency of the passed data
     errors : str
         error handing behaviors from to_datetime, 'raise', 'coerce', 'ignore'
-    infer_datetime_format : bool, default False
-        inferring format behavior from to_datetime
     dayfirst : bool
         dayfirst parsing behavior from to_datetime
     yearfirst : bool
@@ -419,24 +432,22 @@ def _convert_listlike_datetimes(
     arg = ensure_object(arg)
     require_iso8601 = False
 
-    if infer_datetime_format and format is None:
+    if format is None:
         format = _guess_datetime_format_for_array(arg, dayfirst=dayfirst)
 
-    if format is not None:
-        # There is a special fast-path for iso8601 formatted
-        # datetime strings, so in those cases don't use the inferred
-        # format because this path makes process slower in this
-        # special case
-        format_is_iso8601 = format_is_iso(format)
-        if format_is_iso8601:
-            require_iso8601 = not infer_datetime_format
+    # There is a special fast-path for iso8601 formatted datetime strings
+    require_iso8601 = format is not None and format_is_iso(format)
 
     if format is not None and not require_iso8601:
-        res = _to_datetime_with_format(
-            arg, orig_arg, name, utc, format, exact, errors, infer_datetime_format
+        return _to_datetime_with_format(
+            arg,
+            orig_arg,
+            name,
+            utc,
+            format,
+            exact,
+            errors,
         )
-        if res is not None:
-            return res
 
     result, tz_parsed = objects_to_datetime64ns(
         arg,
@@ -466,8 +477,7 @@ def _array_strptime_with_fallback(
     fmt: str,
     exact: bool,
     errors: str,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool,
-) -> Index | None:
+) -> Index:
     """
     Call array_strptime, with fallback behavior depending on 'errors'.
     """
@@ -485,21 +495,14 @@ def _array_strptime_with_fallback(
         else:
             result = arg
     except ValueError:
-        # if fmt was inferred, try falling back
-        # to array_to_datetime - terminate here
-        # for specified formats
-        if not infer_datetime_format:
-            if errors == "raise":
-                raise
-            if errors == "coerce":
-                result = np.empty(arg.shape, dtype="M8[ns]")
-                iresult = result.view("i8")
-                iresult.fill(iNaT)
-            else:
-                result = arg
+        if errors == "raise":
+            raise
+        if errors == "coerce":
+            result = np.empty(arg.shape, dtype="M8[ns]")
+            iresult = result.view("i8")
+            iresult.fill(iNaT)
         else:
-            # Indicates to the caller to fallback to objects_to_datetime64ns
-            return None
+            result = arg
     else:
         if any(tz is not None for tz in timezones):
             return _return_parsed_timezone_results(result, timezones, utc, name)
@@ -515,10 +518,9 @@ def _to_datetime_with_format(
     fmt: str,
     exact: bool,
     errors: str,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool,
-) -> Index | None:
+) -> Index:
     """
-    Try parsing with the given format, returning None on failure.
+    Try parsing with the given format.
     """
     result = None
 
@@ -538,9 +540,7 @@ def _to_datetime_with_format(
             return _box_as_indexlike(result, utc=utc, name=name)
 
     # fallback
-    res = _array_strptime_with_fallback(
-        arg, name, utc, fmt, exact, errors, infer_datetime_format
-    )
+    res = _array_strptime_with_fallback(arg, name, utc, fmt, exact, errors)
     return res
 
 
@@ -714,7 +714,7 @@ def to_datetime(
     format: str | None = None,
     exact: bool = True,
     unit: str | None = None,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = False,
+    infer_datetime_format: lib.NoDefault | bool = lib.no_default,
     origin: str = "unix",
     cache: bool = True,
 ) -> DatetimeIndex | Series | DatetimeScalar | NaTType | None:
@@ -801,6 +801,11 @@ def to_datetime(
         of the datetime strings based on the first non-NaN element,
         and if it can be inferred, switch to a faster method of parsing them.
         In some cases this can increase the parsing speed by ~5-10x.
+
+        .. deprecated:: 2.0.0
+            A strict version of this argument is now the default, passing it has
+            no effect.
+
     origin : scalar, default 'unix'
         Define the reference date. The numeric values would be parsed as number
         of units (defined by `unit`) since this reference date.
@@ -916,24 +921,6 @@ def to_datetime(
     1   2016-03-05
     dtype: datetime64[ns]
 
-    Passing ``infer_datetime_format=True`` can often-times speedup a parsing
-    if its not an ISO8601 format exactly, but in a regular format.
-
-    >>> s = pd.Series(['3/11/2000', '3/12/2000', '3/13/2000'] * 1000)
-    >>> s.head()
-    0    3/11/2000
-    1    3/12/2000
-    2    3/13/2000
-    3    3/11/2000
-    4    3/12/2000
-    dtype: object
-
-    >>> %timeit pd.to_datetime(s, infer_datetime_format=True)  # doctest: +SKIP
-    100 loops, best of 3: 10.4 ms per loop
-
-    >>> %timeit pd.to_datetime(s, infer_datetime_format=False)  # doctest: +SKIP
-    1 loop, best of 3: 471 ms per loop
-
     Using a unix epoch time
 
     >>> pd.to_datetime(1490195805, unit='s')
@@ -982,7 +969,7 @@ def to_datetime(
 
     - Timezone-naive inputs are converted to timezone-naive :class:`DatetimeIndex`:
 
-    >>> pd.to_datetime(['2018-10-26 12:00', '2018-10-26 13:00:15'])
+    >>> pd.to_datetime(['2018-10-26 12:00:00', '2018-10-26 13:00:15'])
     DatetimeIndex(['2018-10-26 12:00:00', '2018-10-26 13:00:15'],
                   dtype='datetime64[ns]', freq=None)
 
@@ -1008,7 +995,7 @@ def to_datetime(
       are constant:
 
     >>> from datetime import datetime
-    >>> pd.to_datetime(["2020-01-01 01:00 -01:00", datetime(2020, 1, 1, 3, 0)])
+    >>> pd.to_datetime(["2020-01-01 01:00:00-01:00", datetime(2020, 1, 1, 3, 0)])
     DatetimeIndex(['2020-01-01 01:00:00-01:00', '2020-01-01 02:00:00-01:00'],
                   dtype='datetime64[ns, UTC-01:00]', freq=None)
 
@@ -1030,19 +1017,22 @@ def to_datetime(
     DatetimeIndex(['2018-10-26 17:30:00+00:00', '2018-10-26 17:00:00+00:00'],
                   dtype='datetime64[ns, UTC]', freq=None)
 
-    - Inputs can contain both naive and aware, string or datetime, the above
+    - Inputs can contain both string or datetime, the above
       rules still apply
 
-    >>> from datetime import timezone, timedelta
-    >>> pd.to_datetime(['2018-10-26 12:00', '2018-10-26 12:00 -0530',
-    ...                datetime(2020, 1, 1, 18),
-    ...                datetime(2020, 1, 1, 18,
-    ...                tzinfo=timezone(-timedelta(hours=1)))],
-    ...                utc=True)
-    DatetimeIndex(['2018-10-26 12:00:00+00:00', '2018-10-26 17:30:00+00:00',
-                   '2020-01-01 18:00:00+00:00', '2020-01-01 19:00:00+00:00'],
+    >>> pd.to_datetime(['2018-10-26 12:00', datetime(2020, 1, 1, 18)], utc=True)
+    DatetimeIndex(['2018-10-26 12:00:00+00:00', '2020-01-01 18:00:00+00:00'],
                   dtype='datetime64[ns, UTC]', freq=None)
     """
+    if infer_datetime_format is not lib.no_default:
+        warnings.warn(
+            "The argument 'infer_datetime_format' is deprecated and will "
+            "be removed in a future version. "
+            "A strict version of it is now the default, see "
+            "https://pandas.pydata.org/pdeps/0004-consistent-to-datetime-parsing.html. "
+            "You can safely remove this argument.",
+            stacklevel=find_stack_level(),
+        )
     if arg is None:
         return None
 
@@ -1057,7 +1047,6 @@ def to_datetime(
         yearfirst=yearfirst,
         errors=errors,
         exact=exact,
-        infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format,
     )
     # pylint: disable-next=used-before-assignment
     result: Timestamp | NaTType | Series | Index
diff --git a/pandas/io/parsers/base_parser.py b/pandas/io/parsers/base_parser.py
index ff94502d69ca3..111a827459022 100644
--- a/pandas/io/parsers/base_parser.py
+++ b/pandas/io/parsers/base_parser.py
@@ -130,13 +130,11 @@ def __init__(self, kwds) -> None:
 
         self.true_values = kwds.get("true_values")
         self.false_values = kwds.get("false_values")
-        self.infer_datetime_format = kwds.pop("infer_datetime_format", False)
         self.cache_dates = kwds.pop("cache_dates", True)
 
         self._date_conv = _make_date_converter(
             date_parser=self.date_parser,
             dayfirst=self.dayfirst,
-            infer_datetime_format=self.infer_datetime_format,
             cache_dates=self.cache_dates,
         )
 
@@ -1115,7 +1113,6 @@ def _get_empty_meta(
 def _make_date_converter(
     date_parser=None,
     dayfirst: bool = False,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = False,
     cache_dates: bool = True,
 ):
     def converter(*date_cols):
@@ -1128,7 +1125,6 @@ def converter(*date_cols):
                     utc=False,
                     dayfirst=dayfirst,
                     errors="ignore",
-                    infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format,
                     cache=cache_dates,
                 ).to_numpy()
 
@@ -1192,7 +1188,6 @@ def converter(*date_cols):
     "verbose": False,
     "encoding": None,
     "compression": None,
-    "infer_datetime_format": False,
     "skip_blank_lines": True,
     "encoding_errors": "strict",
     "on_bad_lines": ParserBase.BadLineHandleMethod.ERROR,
diff --git a/pandas/io/parsers/readers.py b/pandas/io/parsers/readers.py
index 23a335ec0b965..96c2fd08bbc59 100644
--- a/pandas/io/parsers/readers.py
+++ b/pandas/io/parsers/readers.py
@@ -247,6 +247,10 @@
     format of the datetime strings in the columns, and if it can be inferred,
     switch to a faster method of parsing them. In some cases this can increase
     the parsing speed by 5-10x.
+
+    .. deprecated:: 2.0.0
+        A strict version of this argument is now the default, passing it has no effect.
+
 keep_date_col : bool, default False
     If True and `parse_dates` specifies combining multiple columns then
     keep the original columns.
@@ -449,7 +453,6 @@
     "decimal",
     "iterator",
     "dayfirst",
-    "infer_datetime_format",
     "verbose",
     "skipinitialspace",
     "low_memory",
@@ -607,7 +610,7 @@ def read_csv(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] | None = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -663,7 +666,7 @@ def read_csv(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] | None = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -719,7 +722,7 @@ def read_csv(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] | None = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -775,7 +778,7 @@ def read_csv(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] | None = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -843,7 +846,7 @@ def read_csv(
     skip_blank_lines: bool = True,
     # Datetime Handling
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] | None = None,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = False,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = lib.no_default,
     keep_date_col: bool = False,
     date_parser=None,
     dayfirst: bool = False,
@@ -874,6 +877,15 @@ def read_csv(
     storage_options: StorageOptions = None,
     use_nullable_dtypes: bool = False,
 ) -> DataFrame | TextFileReader:
+    if infer_datetime_format is not lib.no_default:
+        warnings.warn(
+            "The argument 'infer_datetime_format' is deprecated and will "
+            "be removed in a future version. "
+            "A strict version of it is now the default, see "
+            "https://pandas.pydata.org/pdeps/0004-consistent-to-datetime-parsing.html. "
+            "You can safely remove this argument.",
+            stacklevel=find_stack_level(),
+        )
     # locals() should never be modified
     kwds = locals().copy()
     del kwds["filepath_or_buffer"]
@@ -920,7 +932,7 @@ def read_table(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -976,7 +988,7 @@ def read_table(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -1032,7 +1044,7 @@ def read_table(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -1088,7 +1100,7 @@ def read_table(
     verbose: bool = ...,
     skip_blank_lines: bool = ...,
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] = ...,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = ...,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = ...,
     keep_date_col: bool = ...,
     date_parser=...,
     dayfirst: bool = ...,
@@ -1156,7 +1168,7 @@ def read_table(
     skip_blank_lines: bool = True,
     # Datetime Handling
     parse_dates: bool | Sequence[Hashable] = False,
-    infer_datetime_format: bool = False,
+    infer_datetime_format: bool | lib.NoDefault = lib.no_default,
     keep_date_col: bool = False,
     date_parser=None,
     dayfirst: bool = False,
@@ -1737,10 +1749,6 @@ def TextParser(*args, **kwds) -> TextFileReader:
         transformed content.
     encoding : str, optional
         Encoding to use for UTF when reading/writing (ex. 'utf-8')
-    infer_datetime_format: bool, default False
-        If True and `parse_dates` is True for a column, try to infer the
-        datetime format based on the first datetime string. If the format
-        can be inferred, there often will be a large parsing speed-up.
     float_precision : str, optional
         Specifies which converter the C engine should use for floating-point
         values. The options are `None` or `high` for the ordinary converter,
diff --git a/pandas/tests/extension/test_arrow.py b/pandas/tests/extension/test_arrow.py
index eb6ad4b575414..557cdd96bf00c 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/extension/test_arrow.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/extension/test_arrow.py
@@ -688,6 +688,13 @@ def test_EA_types(self, engine, data, request):
                     reason=f"Parameterized types with tz={pa_dtype.tz} not supported.",
                 )
             )
+        elif pa.types.is_timestamp(pa_dtype) and pa_dtype.unit in ("us", "ns"):
+            request.node.add_marker(
+                pytest.mark.xfail(
+                    raises=ValueError,
+                    reason="https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/49767",
+                )
+            )
         elif pa.types.is_binary(pa_dtype):
             request.node.add_marker(
                 pytest.mark.xfail(reason="CSV parsers don't correctly handle binary")
diff --git a/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_drop.py b/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_drop.py
index e6db7ec8ed3d7..776e5b85317ff 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_drop.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_drop.py
@@ -405,11 +405,11 @@ def test_drop_level_nonunique_datetime(self):
         idx = Index([2, 3, 4, 4, 5], name="id")
         idxdt = pd.to_datetime(
             [
-                "201603231400",
-                "201603231500",
-                "201603231600",
-                "201603231600",
-                "201603231700",
+                "2016-03-23 14:00",
+                "2016-03-23 15:00",
+                "2016-03-23 16:00",
+                "2016-03-23 16:00",
+                "2016-03-23 17:00",
             ]
         )
         df = DataFrame(np.arange(10).reshape(5, 2), columns=list("ab"), index=idx)
diff --git a/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_to_csv.py b/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_to_csv.py
index 638387452903b..519be89c8793a 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_to_csv.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/frame/methods/test_to_csv.py
@@ -27,7 +27,7 @@
 
 class TestDataFrameToCSV:
     def read_csv(self, path, **kwargs):
-        params = {"index_col": 0, "parse_dates": True}
+        params = {"index_col": 0}
         params.update(**kwargs)
 
         return read_csv(path, **params)
@@ -46,17 +46,17 @@ def test_to_csv_from_csv1(self, float_frame, datetime_frame):
             # freq does not roundtrip
             datetime_frame.index = datetime_frame.index._with_freq(None)
             datetime_frame.to_csv(path)
-            recons = self.read_csv(path)
+            recons = self.read_csv(path, parse_dates=True)
             tm.assert_frame_equal(datetime_frame, recons)
 
             datetime_frame.to_csv(path, index_label="index")
-            recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=None)
+            recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=None, parse_dates=True)
 
             assert len(recons.columns) == len(datetime_frame.columns) + 1
 
             # no index
             datetime_frame.to_csv(path, index=False)
-            recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=None)
+            recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=None, parse_dates=True)
             tm.assert_almost_equal(datetime_frame.values, recons.values)
 
             # corner case
@@ -514,7 +514,10 @@ def test_to_csv_multiindex(self, float_frame, datetime_frame):
             tsframe.index = MultiIndex.from_arrays(new_index)
 
             tsframe.to_csv(path, index_label=["time", "foo"])
-            recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=[0, 1])
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                recons = self.read_csv(path, index_col=[0, 1], parse_dates=True)
 
             # TODO to_csv drops column name
             tm.assert_frame_equal(tsframe, recons, check_names=False)
@@ -1056,7 +1059,7 @@ def test_to_csv_date_format(self, datetime_frame):
 
             # test NaTs
             nat_index = to_datetime(
-                ["NaT"] * 10 + ["2000-01-01", "1/1/2000", "1-1-2000"]
+                ["NaT"] * 10 + ["2000-01-01", "2000-01-01", "2000-01-01"]
             )
             nat_frame = DataFrame({"A": nat_index}, index=nat_index)
             nat_frame.to_csv(path, date_format="%Y-%m-%d")
diff --git a/pandas/tests/groupby/test_function.py b/pandas/tests/groupby/test_function.py
index 7e5bfff53054a..2b0c607d6851a 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/groupby/test_function.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/groupby/test_function.py
@@ -697,7 +697,8 @@ def test_max_nan_bug():
 -05-06,2013-05-06 00:00:00,,log.log
 -05-07,2013-05-07 00:00:00,OE,xlsx"""
 
-    df = pd.read_csv(StringIO(raw), parse_dates=[0])
+    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+        df = pd.read_csv(StringIO(raw), parse_dates=[0])
     gb = df.groupby("Date")
     r = gb[["File"]].max()
     e = gb["File"].max().to_frame()
diff --git a/pandas/tests/indexes/datetimes/test_constructors.py b/pandas/tests/indexes/datetimes/test_constructors.py
index 6a63090dd374f..246de06a04de2 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/indexes/datetimes/test_constructors.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/indexes/datetimes/test_constructors.py
@@ -1060,19 +1060,13 @@ def test_datetimeindex_constructor_misc(self):
         arr = np.array(["1/1/2005", "1/2/2005", "1/3/2005", "2005-01-04"], dtype="O")
         idx4 = DatetimeIndex(arr)
 
-        arr = to_datetime(["1/1/2005", "1/2/2005", "1/3/2005", "2005-01-04"])
-        idx5 = DatetimeIndex(arr)
-
-        arr = to_datetime(["1/1/2005", "1/2/2005", "Jan 3, 2005", "2005-01-04"])
-        idx6 = DatetimeIndex(arr)
-
-        idx7 = DatetimeIndex(["12/05/2007", "25/01/2008"], dayfirst=True)
-        idx8 = DatetimeIndex(
+        idx5 = DatetimeIndex(["12/05/2007", "25/01/2008"], dayfirst=True)
+        idx6 = DatetimeIndex(
             ["2007/05/12", "2008/01/25"], dayfirst=False, yearfirst=True
         )
-        tm.assert_index_equal(idx7, idx8)
+        tm.assert_index_equal(idx5, idx6)
 
-        for other in [idx2, idx3, idx4, idx5, idx6]:
+        for other in [idx2, idx3, idx4]:
             assert (idx1.values == other.values).all()
 
         sdate = datetime(1999, 12, 25)
diff --git a/pandas/tests/indexes/test_base.py b/pandas/tests/indexes/test_base.py
index 396022488aaf5..c2c1073eef36d 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/indexes/test_base.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/indexes/test_base.py
@@ -1214,10 +1214,16 @@ def test_equals_op_index_vs_mi_same_length(self):
         expected = np.array([False, False, False])
         tm.assert_numpy_array_equal(result, expected)
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("dt_conv", [pd.to_datetime, pd.to_timedelta])
-    def test_dt_conversion_preserves_name(self, dt_conv):
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        "dt_conv, arg",
+        [
+            (pd.to_datetime, ["2000-01-01", "2000-01-02"]),
+            (pd.to_timedelta, ["01:02:03", "01:02:04"]),
+        ],
+    )
+    def test_dt_conversion_preserves_name(self, dt_conv, arg):
         # GH 10875
-        index = Index(["01:02:03", "01:02:04"], name="label")
+        index = Index(arg, name="label")
         assert index.name == dt_conv(index).name
 
     def test_cached_properties_not_settable(self):
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/parser/common/test_common_basic.py b/pandas/tests/io/parser/common/test_common_basic.py
index 24b18c8657546..6656face3be84 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/parser/common/test_common_basic.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/parser/common/test_common_basic.py
@@ -57,8 +57,8 @@ def _set_noconvert_columns(self):
             return CParserWrapper._set_noconvert_columns(self)
 
     data = """a,b,c,d,e
-0,1,20140101,0900,4
-0,1,20140102,1000,4"""
+0,1,2014-01-01,09:00,4
+0,1,2014-01-02,10:00,4"""
 
     parse_dates = [[1, 2]]
     cols = {
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/parser/dtypes/test_categorical.py b/pandas/tests/io/parser/dtypes/test_categorical.py
index 3b8c520004f12..a0deebecdfff8 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/parser/dtypes/test_categorical.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/parser/dtypes/test_categorical.py
@@ -262,7 +262,7 @@ def test_categorical_coerces_timestamp(all_parsers):
     parser = all_parsers
     dtype = {"b": CategoricalDtype([Timestamp("2014")])}
 
-    data = "b\n2014-01-01\n2014-01-01T00:00:00"
+    data = "b\n2014-01-01\n2014-01-01"
     expected = DataFrame({"b": Categorical([Timestamp("2014")] * 2)})
 
     result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(data), dtype=dtype)
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/parser/test_parse_dates.py b/pandas/tests/io/parser/test_parse_dates.py
index 5b21028ade84c..c366613c2815f 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/parser/test_parse_dates.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/parser/test_parse_dates.py
@@ -803,7 +803,13 @@ def test_yy_format_with_year_first(all_parsers, parse_dates):
 090331,0830,5,6
 """
     parser = all_parsers
-    result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(data), index_col=0, parse_dates=parse_dates)
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        StringIO(data),
+        index_col=0,
+        parse_dates=parse_dates,
+    )
     index = DatetimeIndex(
         [
             datetime(2009, 1, 31, 0, 10, 0),
@@ -876,7 +882,13 @@ def test_multi_index_parse_dates(all_parsers, index_col):
         columns=["A", "B", "C"],
         index=index,
     )
-    result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(data), index_col=index_col, parse_dates=True)
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        StringIO(data),
+        index_col=index_col,
+        parse_dates=True,
+    )
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
 
@@ -1213,19 +1225,55 @@ def test_read_with_parse_dates_invalid_type(all_parsers, parse_dates):
 
 
 @pytest.mark.parametrize("cache_dates", [True, False])
-@pytest.mark.parametrize("value", ["nan", "0", ""])
+@pytest.mark.parametrize("value", ["nan", ""])
 def test_bad_date_parse(all_parsers, cache_dates, value):
     # if we have an invalid date make sure that we handle this with
     # and w/o the cache properly
     parser = all_parsers
     s = StringIO((f"{value},\n") * 50000)
 
-    parser.read_csv(
+    if parser.engine == "pyarrow":
+        # None in input gets converted to 'None', for which
+        # pandas tries to guess the datetime format, triggering
+        # the warning. TODO: parse dates directly in pyarrow, see
+        # https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/48017
+        warn = UserWarning
+    else:
+        warn = None
+    parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        warn,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        s,
+        header=None,
+        names=["foo", "bar"],
+        parse_dates=["foo"],
+        cache_dates=cache_dates,
+    )
+
+
+@pytest.mark.parametrize("cache_dates", [True, False])
+@pytest.mark.parametrize("value", ["0"])
+def test_bad_date_parse_with_warning(all_parsers, cache_dates, value):
+    # if we have an invalid date make sure that we handle this with
+    # and w/o the cache properly.
+    parser = all_parsers
+    s = StringIO((f"{value},\n") * 50000)
+
+    if parser.engine == "pyarrow":
+        # pyarrow reads "0" as 0 (of type int64), and so
+        # pandas doesn't try to guess the datetime format
+        # TODO: parse dates directly in pyarrow, see
+        # https://github.com/pandas-dev/pandas/issues/48017
+        warn = None
+    else:
+        warn = UserWarning
+    parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        warn,
+        "Could not infer format",
         s,
         header=None,
         names=["foo", "bar"],
         parse_dates=["foo"],
-        infer_datetime_format=False,
         cache_dates=cache_dates,
     )
 
@@ -1243,6 +1291,19 @@ def test_parse_dates_empty_string(all_parsers):
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
 
+def test_parse_dates_infer_datetime_format_warning(all_parsers):
+    # GH 49024
+    parser = all_parsers
+    data = "Date,test\n2012-01-01,1\n,2"
+    parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "The argument 'infer_datetime_format' is deprecated",
+        StringIO(data),
+        parse_dates=["Date"],
+        infer_datetime_format=True,
+    )
+
+
 @xfail_pyarrow
 @pytest.mark.parametrize(
     "data,kwargs,expected",
@@ -1589,7 +1650,13 @@ def test_parse_timezone(all_parsers):
 def test_invalid_parse_delimited_date(all_parsers, date_string):
     parser = all_parsers
     expected = DataFrame({0: [date_string]}, dtype="object")
-    result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(date_string), header=None, parse_dates=[0])
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        StringIO(date_string),
+        header=None,
+        parse_dates=[0],
+    )
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
 
@@ -1620,9 +1687,9 @@ def test_parse_delimited_date_swap_no_warning(
 @pytest.mark.parametrize(
     "date_string,dayfirst,expected",
     [
-        # %d/%m/%Y; month > 12 thus replacement
+        # %d/%m/%Y; month > 12
         ("13/02/2019", False, datetime(2019, 2, 13)),
-        # %m/%d/%Y; day > 12 thus there will be no replacement
+        # %m/%d/%Y; day > 12
         ("02/13/2019", True, datetime(2019, 2, 13)),
     ],
 )
@@ -1631,7 +1698,10 @@ def test_parse_delimited_date_swap_with_warning(
 ):
     parser = all_parsers
     expected = DataFrame({0: [expected]}, dtype="datetime64[ns]")
-    warning_msg = "Specify a format to ensure consistent parsing"
+    warning_msg = (
+        "Parsing dates in .* format when dayfirst=.* was specified. "
+        "Pass `dayfirst=.*` or specify a format to silence this warning."
+    )
     result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
         UserWarning,
         warning_msg,
@@ -1645,13 +1715,11 @@ def test_parse_delimited_date_swap_with_warning(
 
 def test_parse_multiple_delimited_dates_with_swap_warnings():
     # GH46210
-    warning_msg = "Specify a format to ensure consistent parsing"
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg) as record:
+    with pytest.raises(
+        ValueError,
+        match=r"^time data '31/05/2000' does not match format '%m/%d/%Y' \(match\)$",
+    ):
         pd.to_datetime(["01/01/2000", "31/05/2000", "31/05/2001", "01/02/2000"])
-    assert len({str(warning.message) for warning in record}) == 1
-    # Using set(record) as repetitions of the same warning are suppressed
-    # https://docs.python.org/3/library/warnings.html
-    # and here we care to check that the warning is only shows once to users.
 
 
 def _helper_hypothesis_delimited_date(call, date_string, **kwargs):
@@ -1738,7 +1806,13 @@ def test_date_parser_and_names(all_parsers):
     # GH#33699
     parser = all_parsers
     data = StringIO("""x,y\n1,2""")
-    result = parser.read_csv(data, parse_dates=["B"], names=["B"])
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        data,
+        parse_dates=["B"],
+        names=["B"],
+    )
     expected = DataFrame({"B": ["y", "2"]}, index=["x", "1"])
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
@@ -1785,7 +1859,9 @@ def test_date_parser_usecols_thousands(all_parsers):
     """
 
     parser = all_parsers
-    result = parser.read_csv(
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
         StringIO(data),
         parse_dates=[1],
         usecols=[1, 2],
@@ -1813,97 +1889,51 @@ def test_parse_dates_and_keep_orgin_column(all_parsers):
 
 def test_dayfirst_warnings():
     # GH 12585
-    warning_msg_day_first = (
-        r"Parsing dates in DD/MM/YYYY format when dayfirst=False \(the default\) was "
-        r"specified. This may lead to inconsistently parsed dates! Specify a format "
-        r"to ensure consistent parsing."
-    )
-    warning_msg_month_first = (
-        "Parsing dates in MM/DD/YYYY format when dayfirst=True was "
-        "specified. This may lead to inconsistently parsed dates! Specify a format "
-        "to ensure consistent parsing."
-    )
 
     # CASE 1: valid input
     input = "date\n31/12/2014\n10/03/2011"
-    expected_consistent = DatetimeIndex(
+    expected = DatetimeIndex(
         ["2014-12-31", "2011-03-10"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None, name="date"
     )
-    expected_inconsistent = DatetimeIndex(
-        ["2014-12-31", "2011-10-03"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None, name="date"
+    warning_msg = (
+        "Parsing dates in .* format when dayfirst=.* was specified. "
+        "Pass `dayfirst=.*` or specify a format to silence this warning."
     )
 
     # A. dayfirst arg correct, no warning
     res1 = read_csv(
         StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=True, index_col="date"
     ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected_consistent, res1)
+    tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res1)
 
-    # B. dayfirst arg incorrect, warning + incorrect output
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
+    # B. dayfirst arg incorrect, warning
+    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg):
         res2 = read_csv(
             StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=False, index_col="date"
         ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected_inconsistent, res2)
-
-    # C. dayfirst default arg, same as B
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-        res3 = read_csv(
-            StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=False, index_col="date"
-        ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected_inconsistent, res3)
-
-    # D. infer_datetime_format=True overrides dayfirst default
-    # no warning + correct result
-    res4 = read_csv(
-        StringIO(input),
-        parse_dates=["date"],
-        infer_datetime_format=True,
-        index_col="date",
-    ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected_consistent, res4)
+    tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res2)
 
     # CASE 2: invalid input
     # cannot consistently process with single format
-    # warnings *always* raised
+    # return to user unaltered
 
     # first in DD/MM/YYYY, second in MM/DD/YYYY
     input = "date\n31/12/2014\n03/30/2011"
-    expected = DatetimeIndex(
-        ["2014-12-31", "2011-03-30"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None, name="date"
-    )
+    expected = Index(["31/12/2014", "03/30/2011"], dtype="object", name="date")
 
     # A. use dayfirst=True
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_month_first):
-        res5 = read_csv(
-            StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=True, index_col="date"
-        ).index
+    res5 = read_csv(
+        StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=True, index_col="date"
+    ).index
     tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res5)
 
     # B. use dayfirst=False
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
+    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg):
         res6 = read_csv(
             StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=False, index_col="date"
         ).index
     tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res6)
 
-    # C. use dayfirst default arg, same as B
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-        res7 = read_csv(
-            StringIO(input), parse_dates=["date"], dayfirst=False, index_col="date"
-        ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res7)
-
-    # D. use infer_datetime_format=True
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-        res8 = read_csv(
-            StringIO(input),
-            parse_dates=["date"],
-            infer_datetime_format=True,
-            index_col="date",
-        ).index
-    tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res8)
-
 
 @pytest.mark.parametrize(
     "date_string, dayfirst",
@@ -1926,9 +1956,11 @@ def test_dayfirst_warnings_no_leading_zero(date_string, dayfirst):
     expected = DatetimeIndex(
         ["2014-01-31"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None, name="date"
     )
-    with tm.assert_produces_warning(
-        UserWarning, match=r"may lead to inconsistently parsed dates"
-    ):
+    warning_msg = (
+        "Parsing dates in .* format when dayfirst=.* was specified. "
+        "Pass `dayfirst=.*` or specify a format to silence this warning."
+    )
+    with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg):
         res = read_csv(
             StringIO(initial_value),
             parse_dates=["date"],
@@ -1943,7 +1975,12 @@ def test_infer_first_column_as_index(all_parsers):
     # GH#11019
     parser = all_parsers
     data = "a,b,c\n1970-01-01,2,3,4"
-    result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(data), parse_dates=["a"])
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        StringIO(data),
+        parse_dates=["a"],
+    )
     expected = DataFrame({"a": "2", "b": 3, "c": 4}, index=["1970-01-01"])
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/parser/usecols/test_parse_dates.py b/pandas/tests/io/parser/usecols/test_parse_dates.py
index 50000dab8a7aa..4823df1da9959 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/parser/usecols/test_parse_dates.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/parser/usecols/test_parse_dates.py
@@ -31,8 +31,8 @@
 def test_usecols_with_parse_dates(all_parsers, usecols):
     # see gh-9755
     data = """a,b,c,d,e
-0,1,20140101,0900,4
-0,1,20140102,1000,4"""
+0,1,2014-01-01,09:00,4
+0,1,2014-01-02,10:00,4"""
     parser = all_parsers
     parse_dates = [[1, 2]]
 
@@ -124,7 +124,13 @@ def test_usecols_with_parse_dates4(all_parsers):
     }
     expected = DataFrame(cols, columns=["a_b"] + list("cdefghij"))
 
-    result = parser.read_csv(StringIO(data), usecols=usecols, parse_dates=parse_dates)
+    result = parser.read_csv_check_warnings(
+        UserWarning,
+        "Could not infer format",
+        StringIO(data),
+        usecols=usecols,
+        parse_dates=parse_dates,
+    )
     tm.assert_frame_equal(result, expected)
 
 
@@ -138,8 +144,8 @@ def test_usecols_with_parse_dates4(all_parsers):
 )
 def test_usecols_with_parse_dates_and_names(all_parsers, usecols, names):
     # see gh-9755
-    s = """0,1,20140101,0900,4
-0,1,20140102,1000,4"""
+    s = """0,1,2014-01-01,09:00,4
+0,1,2014-01-02,10:00,4"""
     parse_dates = [[1, 2]]
     parser = all_parsers
 
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/test_sql.py b/pandas/tests/io/test_sql.py
index db37b1785af5c..6764ff27674ab 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/test_sql.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/test_sql.py
@@ -1395,7 +1395,7 @@ def test_sqlalchemy_type_mapping(self):
 
         # Test Timestamp objects (no datetime64 because of timezone) (GH9085)
         df = DataFrame(
-            {"time": to_datetime(["201412120154", "201412110254"], utc=True)}
+            {"time": to_datetime(["2014-12-12 01:54", "2014-12-11 02:54"], utc=True)}
         )
         db = sql.SQLDatabase(self.conn)
         table = sql.SQLTable("test_type", db, frame=df)
@@ -1577,7 +1577,7 @@ def test_sqlite_type_mapping(self):
 
         # Test Timestamp objects (no datetime64 because of timezone) (GH9085)
         df = DataFrame(
-            {"time": to_datetime(["201412120154", "201412110254"], utc=True)}
+            {"time": to_datetime(["2014-12-12 01:54", "2014-12-11 02:54"], utc=True)}
         )
         db = sql.SQLiteDatabase(self.conn)
         table = sql.SQLiteTable("test_type", db, frame=df)
diff --git a/pandas/tests/io/xml/test_xml_dtypes.py b/pandas/tests/io/xml/test_xml_dtypes.py
index 412c8a8dde175..17d1e7e00653b 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/io/xml/test_xml_dtypes.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/io/xml/test_xml_dtypes.py
@@ -457,7 +457,7 @@ def test_day_first_parse_dates(parser):
     )
 
     with tm.assert_produces_warning(
-        UserWarning, match="Parsing dates in DD/MM/YYYY format"
+        UserWarning, match="Parsing dates in %d/%m/%Y format"
     ):
         df_result = read_xml(xml, parse_dates=["date"], parser=parser)
         df_iter = read_xml_iterparse(
diff --git a/pandas/tests/plotting/test_converter.py b/pandas/tests/plotting/test_converter.py
index 8da663b8e9977..d0b3b3c413e7a 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/plotting/test_converter.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/plotting/test_converter.py
@@ -161,8 +161,8 @@ def dtc(self):
         return converter.DatetimeConverter()
 
     def test_convert_accepts_unicode(self, dtc):
-        r1 = dtc.convert("12:22", None, None)
-        r2 = dtc.convert("12:22", None, None)
+        r1 = dtc.convert("2000-01-01 12:22", None, None)
+        r2 = dtc.convert("2000-01-01 12:22", None, None)
         assert r1 == r2, "DatetimeConverter.convert should accept unicode"
 
     def test_conversion(self, dtc):
diff --git a/pandas/tests/series/methods/test_to_csv.py b/pandas/tests/series/methods/test_to_csv.py
index 28519fc9b529f..7827483644634 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/series/methods/test_to_csv.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/series/methods/test_to_csv.py
@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@
 
 class TestSeriesToCSV:
     def read_csv(self, path, **kwargs):
-        params = {"index_col": 0, "header": None, "parse_dates": True}
+        params = {"index_col": 0, "header": None}
         params.update(**kwargs)
 
         header = params.get("header")
@@ -30,7 +30,7 @@ def test_from_csv(self, datetime_series, string_series):
 
         with tm.ensure_clean() as path:
             datetime_series.to_csv(path, header=False)
-            ts = self.read_csv(path)
+            ts = self.read_csv(path, parse_dates=True)
             tm.assert_series_equal(datetime_series, ts, check_names=False)
 
             assert ts.name is None
@@ -55,7 +55,7 @@ def test_from_csv(self, datetime_series, string_series):
             with open(path, "w") as outfile:
                 outfile.write("1998-01-01|1.0\n1999-01-01|2.0")
 
-            series = self.read_csv(path, sep="|")
+            series = self.read_csv(path, sep="|", parse_dates=True)
             check_series = Series(
                 {datetime(1998, 1, 1): 1.0, datetime(1999, 1, 1): 2.0}
             )
diff --git a/pandas/tests/test_algos.py b/pandas/tests/test_algos.py
index df83a5e410e71..818211cf0fa2a 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/test_algos.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/test_algos.py
@@ -1218,7 +1218,8 @@ def test_value_counts_datetime_outofbounds(self):
         tm.assert_series_equal(res, exp)
 
         # GH 12424
-        res = to_datetime(Series(["2362-01-01", np.nan]), errors="ignore")
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(Series(["2362-01-01", np.nan]), errors="ignore")
         exp = Series(["2362-01-01", np.nan], dtype=object)
         tm.assert_series_equal(res, exp)
 
diff --git a/pandas/tests/tools/test_to_datetime.py b/pandas/tests/tools/test_to_datetime.py
index 9ea7530640035..48844beed30f4 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/tools/test_to_datetime.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/tools/test_to_datetime.py
@@ -220,7 +220,6 @@ def test_to_datetime_format_YYYYMMDD_overflow(self, input_s, expected):
             ),
             (["201010", pd.NA], "%y%m%d", DatetimeIndex(["2020-10-10", "NaT"])),
             (["201010", pd.NA], "%d%m%y", DatetimeIndex(["2010-10-20", "NaT"])),
-            (["201010", pd.NA], None, DatetimeIndex(["2010-10-20", "NaT"])),
             ([None, np.nan, pd.NA], None, DatetimeIndex(["NaT", "NaT", "NaT"])),
             ([None, np.nan, pd.NA], "%Y%m%d", DatetimeIndex(["NaT", "NaT", "NaT"])),
         ],
@@ -230,6 +229,13 @@ def test_to_datetime_with_NA(self, data, format, expected):
         result = to_datetime(data, format=format)
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
+    def test_to_datetime_with_NA_with_warning(self):
+        # GH#42957
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(["201010", pd.NA])
+        expected = DatetimeIndex(["2010-10-20", "NaT"])
+        tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
+
     def test_to_datetime_format_integer(self, cache):
         # GH 10178
         ser = Series([2000, 2001, 2002])
@@ -576,8 +582,7 @@ def test_to_datetime_mixed_datetime_and_string_with_format_raises(
         ):
             to_datetime([ts1, ts2], format=fmt, utc=False)
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer_datetime_format", [True, False])
-    def test_to_datetime_np_str(self, infer_datetime_format):
+    def test_to_datetime_np_str(self):
         # GH#32264
         # GH#48969
         value = np.str_("2019-02-04 10:18:46.297000+0000")
@@ -589,11 +594,11 @@ def test_to_datetime_np_str(self, infer_datetime_format):
         assert to_datetime(value) == exp
         assert to_datetime(ser.iloc[0]) == exp
 
-        res = to_datetime([value], infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format)
+        res = to_datetime([value])
         expected = Index([exp])
         tm.assert_index_equal(res, expected)
 
-        res = to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format)
+        res = to_datetime(ser)
         expected = Series(expected)
         tm.assert_series_equal(res, expected)
 
@@ -727,7 +732,8 @@ def test_to_datetime_YYYYMMDD(self):
     def test_to_datetime_unparsable_ignore(self):
         # unparsable
         ser = "Month 1, 1999"
-        assert to_datetime(ser, errors="ignore") == ser
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            assert to_datetime(ser, errors="ignore") == ser
 
     @td.skip_if_windows  # `tm.set_timezone` does not work in windows
     def test_to_datetime_now(self):
@@ -1037,7 +1043,10 @@ def test_datetime_bool_arrays_mixed(self, cache):
         msg = f"{type(cache)} is not convertible to datetime"
         with pytest.raises(TypeError, match=msg):
             to_datetime([False, datetime.today()], cache=cache)
-        with pytest.raises(TypeError, match=msg):
+        with pytest.raises(
+            ValueError,
+            match=r"^time data 'True' does not match format '%Y%m%d' \(match\)$",
+        ):
             to_datetime(["20130101", True], cache=cache)
         tm.assert_index_equal(
             to_datetime([0, False, NaT, 0.0], errors="coerce", cache=cache),
@@ -1054,18 +1063,17 @@ def test_datetime_invalid_datatype(self, arg):
             to_datetime(arg)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("value", ["a", "00:01:99"])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer", [True, False])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("format", [None, "H%:M%:S%"])
-    def test_datetime_invalid_scalar(self, value, format, infer):
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        "format,warning", [(None, UserWarning), ("H%:M%:S%", None)]
+    )
+    def test_datetime_invalid_scalar(self, value, format, warning):
         # GH24763
-        res = to_datetime(
-            value, errors="ignore", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(value, errors="ignore", format=format)
         assert res == value
 
-        res = to_datetime(
-            value, errors="coerce", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(value, errors="coerce", format=format)
         assert res is NaT
 
         msg = (
@@ -1074,51 +1082,46 @@ def test_datetime_invalid_scalar(self, value, format, infer):
             f"Given date string {value} not likely a datetime"
         )
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-            to_datetime(
-                value, errors="raise", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-            )
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+                to_datetime(value, errors="raise", format=format)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("value", ["3000/12/11 00:00:00"])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer", [True, False])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("format", [None, "H%:M%:S%"])
-    def test_datetime_outofbounds_scalar(self, value, format, infer):
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        "format,warning", [(None, UserWarning), ("H%:M%:S%", None)]
+    )
+    def test_datetime_outofbounds_scalar(self, value, format, warning):
         # GH24763
-        res = to_datetime(
-            value, errors="ignore", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(value, errors="ignore", format=format)
         assert res == value
 
-        res = to_datetime(
-            value, errors="coerce", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(value, errors="coerce", format=format)
         assert res is NaT
 
         if format is not None:
             msg = "is a bad directive in format|Out of bounds .* present at position 0"
             with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-                to_datetime(
-                    value, errors="raise", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-                )
+                to_datetime(value, errors="raise", format=format)
         else:
             msg = "Out of bounds .* present at position 0"
-            with pytest.raises(OutOfBoundsDatetime, match=msg):
-                to_datetime(
-                    value, errors="raise", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-                )
+            with pytest.raises(
+                OutOfBoundsDatetime, match=msg
+            ), tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+                to_datetime(value, errors="raise", format=format)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("values", [["a"], ["00:01:99"], ["a", "b", "99:00:00"]])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer", [True, False])
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("format", [None, "H%:M%:S%"])
-    def test_datetime_invalid_index(self, values, format, infer):
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        "format,warning", [(None, UserWarning), ("H%:M%:S%", None)]
+    )
+    def test_datetime_invalid_index(self, values, format, warning):
         # GH24763
-        res = to_datetime(
-            values, errors="ignore", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(values, errors="ignore", format=format)
         tm.assert_index_equal(res, Index(values))
 
-        res = to_datetime(
-            values, errors="coerce", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            res = to_datetime(values, errors="coerce", format=format)
         tm.assert_index_equal(res, DatetimeIndex([NaT] * len(values)))
 
         msg = (
@@ -1127,9 +1130,8 @@ def test_datetime_invalid_index(self, values, format, infer):
             "second must be in 0..59"
         )
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-            to_datetime(
-                values, errors="raise", format=format, infer_datetime_format=infer
-            )
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+                to_datetime(values, errors="raise", format=format)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("utc", [True, None])
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("format", ["%Y%m%d %H:%M:%S", None])
@@ -1263,7 +1265,6 @@ def test_to_datetime_coerce(self):
         )
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer_datetime_format", [True, False])
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
         "errors, expected",
         [
@@ -1271,28 +1272,28 @@ def test_to_datetime_coerce(self):
             ("ignore", Index(["200622-12-31", "111111-24-11"])),
         ],
     )
-    def test_to_datetime_malformed_no_raise(
-        self, errors, expected, infer_datetime_format
-    ):
+    def test_to_datetime_malformed_no_raise(self, errors, expected):
         # GH 28299
         # GH 48633
         ts_strings = ["200622-12-31", "111111-24-11"]
-        result = to_datetime(
-            ts_strings, errors=errors, infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(ts_strings, errors=errors)
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("infer_datetime_format", [True, False])
-    def test_to_datetime_malformed_raise(self, infer_datetime_format):
+    def test_to_datetime_malformed_raise(self):
         # GH 48633
         ts_strings = ["200622-12-31", "111111-24-11"]
         with pytest.raises(
             ValueError,
             match=r"^hour must be in 0\.\.23: 111111-24-11 present at position 1$",
         ):
-            to_datetime(
-                ts_strings, errors="raise", infer_datetime_format=infer_datetime_format
-            )
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime(
+                    ts_strings,
+                    errors="raise",
+                )
 
     def test_iso_8601_strings_with_same_offset(self):
         # GH 17697, 11736
@@ -1332,36 +1333,6 @@ def test_iso_8601_strings_with_different_offsets_utc(self):
         )
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
-    def test_iso8601_strings_mixed_offsets_with_naive(self):
-        # GH 24992
-        result = to_datetime(
-            [
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00+12:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00+06:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-            ],
-            utc=True,
-        )
-        expected = to_datetime(
-            [
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-                "2018-11-27T12:00:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-                "2018-11-27T18:00:00",
-                "2018-11-28T00:00:00",
-            ],
-            utc=True,
-        )
-        tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
-
-    def test_iso8601_strings_mixed_offsets_with_naive_reversed(self):
-        items = ["2018-11-28T00:00:00+12:00", "2018-11-28T00:00:00"]
-        result = to_datetime(items, utc=True)
-        expected = to_datetime(list(reversed(items)), utc=True)[::-1]
-        tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
-
     def test_mixed_offsets_with_native_datetime_raises(self):
         # GH 25978
 
@@ -1515,23 +1486,26 @@ def test_unit_with_numeric(self, cache, errors, dtype):
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "exp, arr",
+        "exp, arr, warning",
         [
             [
                 ["NaT", "2015-06-19 05:33:20", "2015-05-27 22:33:20"],
                 ["foo", 1.434692e18, 1.432766e18],
+                UserWarning,
             ],
             [
                 ["2015-06-19 05:33:20", "2015-05-27 22:33:20", "NaT", "NaT"],
                 [1.434692e18, 1.432766e18, "foo", "NaT"],
+                None,
             ],
         ],
     )
-    def test_unit_with_numeric_coerce(self, cache, exp, arr):
+    def test_unit_with_numeric_coerce(self, cache, exp, arr, warning):
         # but we want to make sure that we are coercing
         # if we have ints/strings
         expected = DatetimeIndex(exp)
-        result = to_datetime(arr, errors="coerce", cache=cache)
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(arr, errors="coerce", cache=cache)
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
@@ -1852,7 +1826,10 @@ def test_to_datetime_barely_out_of_bounds(self):
 
         msg = "Out of bounds .* present at position 0"
         with pytest.raises(OutOfBoundsDatetime, match=msg):
-            to_datetime(arr)
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime(arr)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
         "arg, exp_str",
@@ -2016,7 +1993,7 @@ def test_to_datetime_on_datetime64_series(self, cache):
     def test_to_datetime_with_space_in_series(self, cache):
         # GH 6428
         ser = Series(["10/18/2006", "10/18/2008", " "])
-        msg = r"(\(')?String does not contain a date(:', ' '\))?"
+        msg = r"^time data ' ' does not match format '%m/%d/%Y' \(match\)$"
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
             to_datetime(ser, errors="raise", cache=cache)
         result_coerce = to_datetime(ser, errors="coerce", cache=cache)
@@ -2082,7 +2059,7 @@ def test_to_datetime_strings(self, cache):
 
     def test_to_datetime_strings_variation(self, cache):
         array = ["2012", "20120101", "20120101 12:01:01"]
-        expected = list(to_datetime(array, cache=cache))
+        expected = [to_datetime(dt_str, cache=cache) for dt_str in array]
         result = [Timestamp(date_str) for date_str in array]
         tm.assert_almost_equal(result, expected)
 
@@ -2138,9 +2115,7 @@ def test_to_datetime_overflow(self):
     def test_string_na_nat_conversion(self, cache):
         # GH #999, #858
 
-        strings = np.array(
-            ["1/1/2000", "1/2/2000", np.nan, "1/4/2000, 12:34:56"], dtype=object
-        )
+        strings = np.array(["1/1/2000", "1/2/2000", np.nan, "1/4/2000"], dtype=object)
 
         expected = np.empty(4, dtype="M8[ns]")
         for i, val in enumerate(strings):
@@ -2162,15 +2137,22 @@ def test_string_na_nat_conversion_malformed(self, cache):
         # GH 10636, default is now 'raise'
         msg = r"Unknown string format:|day is out of range for month"
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-            to_datetime(malformed, errors="raise", cache=cache)
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime(malformed, errors="raise", cache=cache)
 
-        result = to_datetime(malformed, errors="ignore", cache=cache)
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(malformed, errors="ignore", cache=cache)
         # GH 21864
         expected = Index(malformed)
         tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
 
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-            to_datetime(malformed, errors="raise", cache=cache)
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime(malformed, errors="raise", cache=cache)
 
     def test_string_na_nat_conversion_with_name(self, cache):
         idx = ["a", "b", "c", "d", "e"]
@@ -2255,80 +2237,39 @@ def test_dayfirst(self, cache):
 
     def test_dayfirst_warnings_valid_input(self):
         # GH 12585
-        warning_msg_day_first = (
-            r"Parsing dates in DD/MM/YYYY format when dayfirst=False \(the default\) "
-            "was specified. This may lead to inconsistently parsed dates! Specify a "
-            "format to ensure consistent parsing."
+        warning_msg = (
+            "Parsing dates in .* format when dayfirst=.* was specified. "
+            "Pass `dayfirst=.*` or specify a format to silence this warning."
         )
 
         # CASE 1: valid input
         arr = ["31/12/2014", "10/03/2011"]
-        expected_consistent = DatetimeIndex(
+        expected = DatetimeIndex(
             ["2014-12-31", "2011-03-10"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None
         )
-        expected_inconsistent = DatetimeIndex(
-            ["2014-12-31", "2011-10-03"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None
-        )
 
         # A. dayfirst arg correct, no warning
         res1 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=True)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected_consistent, res1)
+        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res1)
 
-        # B. dayfirst arg incorrect, warning + incorrect output
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
+        # B. dayfirst arg incorrect, warning
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg):
             res2 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=False)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected_inconsistent, res2)
-
-        # C. dayfirst default arg, same as B
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-            res3 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=False)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected_inconsistent, res3)
-
-        # D. infer_datetime_format=True overrides dayfirst default
-        # no warning + correct result
-        res4 = to_datetime(arr, infer_datetime_format=True)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected_consistent, res4)
+        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res2)
 
     def test_dayfirst_warnings_invalid_input(self):
         # CASE 2: invalid input
         # cannot consistently process with single format
-        # warnings *always* raised
-        warning_msg_day_first = (
-            r"Parsing dates in DD/MM/YYYY format when dayfirst=False \(the default\) "
-            "was specified. This may lead to inconsistently parsed dates! Specify a "
-            "format to ensure consistent parsing."
-        )
-        warning_msg_month_first = (
-            r"Parsing dates in MM/DD/YYYY format when dayfirst=True "
-            "was specified. This may lead to inconsistently parsed dates! Specify a "
-            "format to ensure consistent parsing."
-        )
+        # ValueError *always* raised
 
-        arr = ["31/12/2014", "03/30/2011"]
         # first in DD/MM/YYYY, second in MM/DD/YYYY
-        expected = DatetimeIndex(
-            ["2014-12-31", "2011-03-30"], dtype="datetime64[ns]", freq=None
-        )
-
-        # A. use dayfirst=True
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_month_first):
-            res5 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=True)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res5)
-
-        # B. use dayfirst=False
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-            res6 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=False)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res6)
-
-        # C. use dayfirst default arg, same as B
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-            res7 = to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=False)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res7)
+        arr = ["31/12/2014", "03/30/2011"]
 
-        # D. use infer_datetime_format=True
-        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match=warning_msg_day_first):
-            res8 = to_datetime(arr, infer_datetime_format=True)
-        tm.assert_index_equal(expected, res8)
+        with pytest.raises(
+            ValueError,
+            match=r"time data '03/30/2011' does not match format '%d/%m/%Y' \(match\)$",
+        ):
+            to_datetime(arr, dayfirst=True)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("klass", [DatetimeIndex, DatetimeArray])
     def test_to_datetime_dta_tz(self, klass):
@@ -2385,48 +2326,41 @@ def test_to_datetime_infer_datetime_format_consistent_format(
         s_as_dt_strings = ser.apply(lambda x: x.strftime(test_format))
 
         with_format = to_datetime(s_as_dt_strings, format=test_format, cache=cache)
-        no_infer = to_datetime(
-            s_as_dt_strings, infer_datetime_format=False, cache=cache
-        )
-        yes_infer = to_datetime(
-            s_as_dt_strings, infer_datetime_format=True, cache=cache
-        )
+        without_format = to_datetime(s_as_dt_strings, cache=cache)
 
-        # Whether the format is explicitly passed, it is inferred, or
-        # it is not inferred, the results should all be the same
-        tm.assert_series_equal(with_format, no_infer)
-        tm.assert_series_equal(no_infer, yes_infer)
+        # Whether the format is explicitly passed, or
+        # it is inferred, the results should all be the same
+        tm.assert_series_equal(with_format, without_format)
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "data",
-        [
-            ["01/01/2011 00:00:00", "01-02-2011 00:00:00", "2011-01-03T00:00:00"],
-            ["Jan/01/2011", "Feb/01/2011", "Mar/01/2011"],
-        ],
-    )
-    def test_to_datetime_infer_datetime_format_inconsistent_format(self, cache, data):
+    def test_to_datetime_inconsistent_format(self, cache):
+        data = ["01/01/2011 00:00:00", "01-02-2011 00:00:00", "2011-01-03T00:00:00"]
         ser = Series(np.array(data))
+        with pytest.raises(ValueError, match="does not match format"):
+            to_datetime(ser, cache=cache)
 
-        # When the format is inconsistent, infer_datetime_format should just
-        # fallback to the default parsing
-        tm.assert_series_equal(
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=False, cache=cache),
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=True, cache=cache),
+    def test_to_datetime_consistent_format(self, cache):
+        data = ["Jan/01/2011", "Feb/01/2011", "Mar/01/2011"]
+        ser = Series(np.array(data))
+        result = to_datetime(ser, cache=cache)
+        expected = Series(
+            ["2011-01-01", "2011-02-01", "2011-03-01"], dtype="datetime64[ns]"
         )
+        tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
 
-    def test_to_datetime_infer_datetime_format_series_with_nans(self, cache):
+    def test_to_datetime_series_with_nans(self, cache):
         ser = Series(
             np.array(
                 ["01/01/2011 00:00:00", np.nan, "01/03/2011 00:00:00", np.nan],
                 dtype=object,
             )
         )
-        tm.assert_series_equal(
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=False, cache=cache),
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=True, cache=cache),
+        result = to_datetime(ser, cache=cache)
+        expected = Series(
+            ["2011-01-01", NaT, "2011-01-03", NaT], dtype="datetime64[ns]"
         )
+        tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
 
-    def test_to_datetime_infer_datetime_format_series_start_with_nans(self, cache):
+    def test_to_datetime_series_start_with_nans(self, cache):
         ser = Series(
             np.array(
                 [
@@ -2440,18 +2374,21 @@ def test_to_datetime_infer_datetime_format_series_start_with_nans(self, cache):
             )
         )
 
-        tm.assert_series_equal(
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=False, cache=cache),
-            to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=True, cache=cache),
+        result = to_datetime(ser, cache=cache)
+        expected = Series(
+            [NaT, NaT, "2011-01-01", "2011-01-02", "2011-01-03"], dtype="datetime64[ns]"
         )
+        tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "tz_name, offset", [("UTC", 0), ("UTC-3", 180), ("UTC+3", -180)]
+        "tz_name, offset, warning",
+        [("UTC", 0, None), ("UTC-3", 180, UserWarning), ("UTC+3", -180, UserWarning)],
     )
-    def test_infer_datetime_format_tz_name(self, tz_name, offset):
+    def test_infer_datetime_format_tz_name(self, tz_name, offset, warning):
         # GH 33133
         ser = Series([f"2019-02-02 08:07:13 {tz_name}"])
-        result = to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=True)
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(ser)
         tz = timezone(timedelta(minutes=offset))
         expected = Series([Timestamp("2019-02-02 08:07:13").tz_localize(tz)])
         tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
@@ -2468,7 +2405,7 @@ def test_infer_datetime_format_tz_name(self, tz_name, offset):
     def test_infer_datetime_format_zero_tz(self, ts, zero_tz):
         # GH 41047
         ser = Series([ts + zero_tz])
-        result = to_datetime(ser, infer_datetime_format=True)
+        result = to_datetime(ser)
         tz = pytz.utc if zero_tz == "Z" else None
         expected = Series([Timestamp(ts, tz=tz)])
         tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
@@ -2486,26 +2423,38 @@ def test_to_datetime_iso8601_noleading_0s(self, cache, format):
         )
         tm.assert_series_equal(to_datetime(ser, format=format, cache=cache), expected)
 
+    def test_parse_dates_infer_datetime_format_warning(self):
+        # GH 49024
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+            UserWarning,
+            match="The argument 'infer_datetime_format' is deprecated",
+        ):
+            to_datetime(["10-10-2000"], infer_datetime_format=True)
+
 
 class TestDaysInMonth:
     # tests for issue #10154
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "arg, format",
+        "arg, format, warning",
         [
-            ["2015-02-29", None],
-            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d"],
-            ["2015-02-32", "%Y-%m-%d"],
-            ["2015-04-31", "%Y-%m-%d"],
+            ["2015-02-29", None, UserWarning],
+            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
+            ["2015-02-32", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
+            ["2015-04-31", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
         ],
     )
-    def test_day_not_in_month_coerce(self, cache, arg, format):
-        assert isna(to_datetime(arg, errors="coerce", format=format, cache=cache))
+    def test_day_not_in_month_coerce(self, cache, arg, format, warning):
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            assert isna(to_datetime(arg, errors="coerce", format=format, cache=cache))
 
     def test_day_not_in_month_raise(self, cache):
         msg = "day is out of range for month"
         with pytest.raises(ValueError, match=msg):
-            to_datetime("2015-02-29", errors="raise", cache=cache)
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime("2015-02-29", errors="raise", cache=cache)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize("arg", ["2015-02-29", "2015-02-32", "2015-04-31"])
     def test_day_not_in_month_raise_value(self, cache, arg):
@@ -2514,85 +2463,85 @@ def test_day_not_in_month_raise_value(self, cache, arg):
             to_datetime(arg, errors="raise", format="%Y-%m-%d", cache=cache)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "expected, format",
+        "expected, format, warning",
         [
-            ["2015-02-29", None],
-            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d"],
-            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d"],
-            ["2015-04-31", "%Y-%m-%d"],
+            ["2015-02-29", None, UserWarning],
+            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
+            ["2015-02-29", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
+            ["2015-04-31", "%Y-%m-%d", None],
         ],
     )
-    def test_day_not_in_month_ignore(self, cache, expected, format):
-        result = to_datetime(expected, errors="ignore", format=format, cache=cache)
+    def test_day_not_in_month_ignore(self, cache, expected, format, warning):
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result = to_datetime(expected, errors="ignore", format=format, cache=cache)
         assert result == expected
 
 
 class TestDatetimeParsingWrappers:
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-        "date_str,expected",
-        list(
-            {
-                "2011-01-01": datetime(2011, 1, 1),
-                "2Q2005": datetime(2005, 4, 1),
-                "2Q05": datetime(2005, 4, 1),
-                "2005Q1": datetime(2005, 1, 1),
-                "05Q1": datetime(2005, 1, 1),
-                "2011Q3": datetime(2011, 7, 1),
-                "11Q3": datetime(2011, 7, 1),
-                "3Q2011": datetime(2011, 7, 1),
-                "3Q11": datetime(2011, 7, 1),
-                # quarterly without space
-                "2000Q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "00Q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "4Q2000": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "4Q00": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "2000q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "2000-Q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "00-Q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "4Q-2000": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "4Q-00": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "00q4": datetime(2000, 10, 1),
-                "2005": datetime(2005, 1, 1),
-                "2005-11": datetime(2005, 11, 1),
-                "2005 11": datetime(2005, 11, 1),
-                "11-2005": datetime(2005, 11, 1),
-                "11 2005": datetime(2005, 11, 1),
-                "200511": datetime(2020, 5, 11),
-                "20051109": datetime(2005, 11, 9),
-                "20051109 10:15": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15),
-                "20051109 08H": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0),
-                "2005-11-09 10:15": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15),
-                "2005-11-09 08H": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0),
-                "2005/11/09 10:15": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15),
-                "2005/11/09 08H": datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0),
-                "Thu Sep 25 10:36:28 2003": datetime(2003, 9, 25, 10, 36, 28),
-                "Thu Sep 25 2003": datetime(2003, 9, 25),
-                "Sep 25 2003": datetime(2003, 9, 25),
-                "January 1 2014": datetime(2014, 1, 1),
-                # GHE10537
-                "2014-06": datetime(2014, 6, 1),
-                "06-2014": datetime(2014, 6, 1),
-                "2014-6": datetime(2014, 6, 1),
-                "6-2014": datetime(2014, 6, 1),
-                "20010101 12": datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12),
-                "20010101 1234": datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12, 34),
-                "20010101 123456": datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12, 34, 56),
-            }.items()
-        ),
+        "date_str, expected, warning",
+        [
+            ("2011-01-01", datetime(2011, 1, 1), None),
+            ("2Q2005", datetime(2005, 4, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2Q05", datetime(2005, 4, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2005Q1", datetime(2005, 1, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("05Q1", datetime(2005, 1, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2011Q3", datetime(2011, 7, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("11Q3", datetime(2011, 7, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("3Q2011", datetime(2011, 7, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("3Q11", datetime(2011, 7, 1), UserWarning),
+            # quarterly without space
+            ("2000Q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("00Q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("4Q2000", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("4Q00", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2000q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2000-Q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("00-Q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("4Q-2000", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("4Q-00", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("00q4", datetime(2000, 10, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2005", datetime(2005, 1, 1), None),
+            ("2005-11", datetime(2005, 11, 1), None),
+            ("2005 11", datetime(2005, 11, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("11-2005", datetime(2005, 11, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("11 2005", datetime(2005, 11, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("200511", datetime(2020, 5, 11), UserWarning),
+            ("20051109", datetime(2005, 11, 9), None),
+            ("20051109 10:15", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15), None),
+            ("20051109 08H", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0), None),
+            ("2005-11-09 10:15", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15), None),
+            ("2005-11-09 08H", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0), None),
+            ("2005/11/09 10:15", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 10, 15), None),
+            ("2005/11/09 08H", datetime(2005, 11, 9, 8, 0), None),
+            ("Thu Sep 25 10:36:28 2003", datetime(2003, 9, 25, 10, 36, 28), None),
+            ("Thu Sep 25 2003", datetime(2003, 9, 25), None),
+            ("Sep 25 2003", datetime(2003, 9, 25), None),
+            ("January 1 2014", datetime(2014, 1, 1), None),
+            # GHE10537
+            ("2014-06", datetime(2014, 6, 1), None),
+            ("06-2014", datetime(2014, 6, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("2014-6", datetime(2014, 6, 1), None),
+            ("6-2014", datetime(2014, 6, 1), UserWarning),
+            ("20010101 12", datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12), None),
+            ("20010101 1234", datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12, 34), UserWarning),
+            ("20010101 123456", datetime(2001, 1, 1, 12, 34, 56), UserWarning),
+        ],
     )
-    def test_parsers(self, date_str, expected, cache):
+    def test_parsers(self, date_str, expected, warning, cache):
 
         # dateutil >= 2.5.0 defaults to yearfirst=True
         # https://github.com/dateutil/dateutil/issues/217
         yearfirst = True
 
         result1, _ = parsing.parse_time_string(date_str, yearfirst=yearfirst)
-        result2 = to_datetime(date_str, yearfirst=yearfirst)
-        result3 = to_datetime([date_str], yearfirst=yearfirst)
-        # result5 is used below
-        result4 = to_datetime(
-            np.array([date_str], dtype=object), yearfirst=yearfirst, cache=cache
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result2 = to_datetime(date_str, yearfirst=yearfirst)
+            result3 = to_datetime([date_str], yearfirst=yearfirst)
+            # result5 is used below
+            result4 = to_datetime(
+                np.array([date_str], dtype=object), yearfirst=yearfirst, cache=cache
+            )
         result6 = DatetimeIndex([date_str], yearfirst=yearfirst)
         # result7 is used below
         result8 = DatetimeIndex(Index([date_str]), yearfirst=yearfirst)
@@ -2701,9 +2650,10 @@ def test_parsers_dayfirst_yearfirst(
             result2 = Timestamp(date_str)
             assert result2 == expected
 
-        result3 = to_datetime(
-            date_str, dayfirst=dayfirst, yearfirst=yearfirst, cache=cache
-        )
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result3 = to_datetime(
+                date_str, dayfirst=dayfirst, yearfirst=yearfirst, cache=cache
+            )
 
         result4 = DatetimeIndex([date_str], dayfirst=dayfirst, yearfirst=yearfirst)[0]
 
@@ -2720,8 +2670,9 @@ def test_parsers_timestring(self, date_str, exp_def):
         exp_now = parse(date_str)
 
         result1, _ = parsing.parse_time_string(date_str)
-        result2 = to_datetime(date_str)
-        result3 = to_datetime([date_str])
+        with tm.assert_produces_warning(UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"):
+            result2 = to_datetime(date_str)
+            result3 = to_datetime([date_str])
         result4 = Timestamp(date_str)
         result5 = DatetimeIndex([date_str])[0]
         # parse time string return time string based on default date
@@ -2891,17 +2842,23 @@ def test_incorrect_value_exception(self):
         with pytest.raises(
             ValueError, match="Unknown string format: yesterday present at position 1"
         ):
-            to_datetime(["today", "yesterday"])
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(
+                UserWarning, match="Could not infer format"
+            ):
+                to_datetime(["today", "yesterday"])
 
-    @pytest.mark.parametrize("format", [None, "%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S"])
-    def test_to_datetime_out_of_bounds_with_format_arg(self, format):
+    @pytest.mark.parametrize(
+        "format, warning", [(None, UserWarning), ("%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S", None)]
+    )
+    def test_to_datetime_out_of_bounds_with_format_arg(self, format, warning):
         # see gh-23830
         msg = (
             "Out of bounds nanosecond timestamp: 2417-10-27 00:00:00 "
             "present at position 0"
         )
         with pytest.raises(OutOfBoundsDatetime, match=msg):
-            to_datetime("2417-10-27 00:00:00", format=format)
+            with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match="Could not infer format"):
+                to_datetime("2417-10-27 00:00:00", format=format)
 
     @pytest.mark.parametrize(
         "arg, origin, expected_str",
@@ -3033,9 +2990,9 @@ def test_empty_string_datetime_coerce_format():
     with pytest.raises(ValueError, match="does not match format"):
         to_datetime(td, format=format, errors="raise")
 
-    # don't raise an exception in case no format is given
-    result = to_datetime(td, errors="raise")
-    tm.assert_series_equal(result, expected)
+    # still raise an exception in case no format is given
+    with pytest.raises(ValueError, match="does not match format"):
+        to_datetime(td, errors="raise")
 
 
 def test_empty_string_datetime_coerce__unit():
@@ -3112,30 +3069,6 @@ def test_to_datetime_cache_coerce_50_lines_outofbounds(series_length):
         to_datetime(s, errors="raise", utc=True)
 
 
-@pytest.mark.parametrize(
-    "arg",
-    [
-        ["1724-12-20 20:20:20+00:00", "2022-01-01 00:00:00"],
-        [
-            Timestamp("1724-12-20 20:20:20+00:00"),
-            Timestamp("2022-01-01 00:00:00"),
-        ],
-        [datetime(1724, 12, 20, 20, 20, 20, tzinfo=timezone.utc), datetime(2022, 1, 1)],
-    ],
-    ids=["string", "pd.Timestamp", "datetime.datetime"],
-)
-@pytest.mark.parametrize("tz_aware_first", [True, False])
-def test_to_datetime_mixed_tzaware_timestamp_utc_true(arg, tz_aware_first):
-    # GH 48678
-    exp_arg = ["1724-12-20 20:20:20", "2022-01-01 00:00:00"]
-    if not tz_aware_first:
-        arg.reverse()
-        exp_arg.reverse()
-    result = to_datetime(arg, utc=True)
-    expected = DatetimeIndex(exp_arg).tz_localize("UTC")
-    tm.assert_index_equal(result, expected)
-
-
 def test_to_datetime_format_f_parse_nanos():
     # GH 48767
     timestamp = "15/02/2020 02:03:04.123456789"
diff --git a/pandas/tests/tslibs/test_parsing.py b/pandas/tests/tslibs/test_parsing.py
index 4d7501cdadcd9..a4c79e77d2eed 100644
--- a/pandas/tests/tslibs/test_parsing.py
+++ b/pandas/tests/tslibs/test_parsing.py
@@ -238,19 +238,30 @@ def test_guess_datetime_format_wrong_type_inputs(invalid_type_dt):
 
 
 @pytest.mark.parametrize(
-    "string,fmt",
+    "string,fmt,dayfirst,warning",
     [
-        ("2011-1-1", "%Y-%m-%d"),
-        ("1/1/2011", "%m/%d/%Y"),
-        ("30-1-2011", "%d-%m-%Y"),
-        ("2011-1-1 0:0:0", "%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S"),
-        ("2011-1-3T00:00:0", "%Y-%m-%dT%H:%M:%S"),
-        ("2011-1-1 00:00:00", "%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S"),
+        ("2011-1-1", "%Y-%m-%d", False, None),
+        ("2011-1-1", "%Y-%d-%m", True, None),
+        ("1/1/2011", "%m/%d/%Y", False, None),
+        ("1/1/2011", "%d/%m/%Y", True, None),
+        ("30-1-2011", "%d-%m-%Y", False, UserWarning),
+        ("30-1-2011", "%d-%m-%Y", True, None),
+        ("2011-1-1 0:0:0", "%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S", False, None),
+        ("2011-1-1 0:0:0", "%Y-%d-%m %H:%M:%S", True, None),
+        ("2011-1-3T00:00:0", "%Y-%m-%dT%H:%M:%S", False, None),
+        ("2011-1-3T00:00:0", "%Y-%d-%mT%H:%M:%S", True, None),
+        ("2011-1-1 00:00:00", "%Y-%m-%d %H:%M:%S", False, None),
+        ("2011-1-1 00:00:00", "%Y-%d-%m %H:%M:%S", True, None),
     ],
 )
-def test_guess_datetime_format_no_padding(string, fmt):
+def test_guess_datetime_format_no_padding(string, fmt, dayfirst, warning):
     # see gh-11142
-    result = parsing.guess_datetime_format(string)
+    msg = (
+        f"Parsing dates in {fmt} format when dayfirst=False was specified. "
+        "Pass `dayfirst=True` or specify a format to silence this warning."
+    )
+    with tm.assert_produces_warning(warning, match=msg):
+        result = parsing.guess_datetime_format(string, dayfirst=dayfirst)
     assert result == fmt