BLD: relax meson/meson-python requirements (#60089)

* relax meson/meson-python requirements

This makes bugfixes from later meson/meson-python fixes available
to build pandas. For eg: python 3.13t support in meson, needs an
up-to-date version of meson.

* Drop upper bound for meson-python

Author: isuruf

pyproject.toml

@@ -2,8 +2,8 @@
 # Minimum requirements for the build system to execute.
 # See https://github.com/scipy/scipy/pull/12940 for the AIX issue.
 requires = [
-    "meson-python==0.13.1",
-    "meson==1.2.1",
+    "meson-python>=0.13.1",
+    "meson>=1.2.1,<2",
     "wheel",
     "Cython~=3.0.5",  # Note: sync with setup.py, environment.yml and asv.conf.json
     # Force numpy higher than 2.0rc1, so that built wheels are compatible