feat(release): updateDependents generator option for versioning, support circular dependencies (#23252)

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## Current Behavior
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When releasing projects independently, if a dependent project is
untouched directly by the changes, it will not have its version updated
and there is no way to opt into this behavior.

Additionally, circular dependencies between packages are not supported.

## Expected Behavior
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When releasing projects independently, if a dependent project is
untouched directly by the changes, **BY DEFAULT** it will not have its
version updated, **BUT** you can opt into it always being updated via a
generator option (`release.version.generatorOptions.updateDependents =
auto` and you can control what kind of semver bump should be applied to
the otherwise unchanged dependent project. Transitive local dependents
(`A -> B -> C`) will also be updated in this scenario.

Additionally, when opted into, such version only changes will appear in
the changelog under a new `Updated Dependencies` section.

Circular dependencies between packages are now supported for versioning,
changelog generation and publishing.

## Related Issue(s)
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Fixes #22268

Author: JamesHenry

e2e/release/src/circular-dependencies.test.ts

@@ -191,8 +191,10 @@ describe('nx release - independent projects', () => {
         {project-name} 🔍 Reading data for package "@proj/{project-name}" from {project-name}/package.json
         {project-name} 📄 Resolved the current version as 0.0.0 from {project-name}/package.json
         {project-name} 📄 Using the provided version specifier "999.9.9-package.3".
+        {project-name} ⚠️  Warning, the following packages depend on "{project-name}" but have been filtered out via --projects, and therefore will not be updated:
+        - {project-name}
+        => You can adjust this behavior by setting \`version.generatorOptions.updateDependents\` to "auto"
         {project-name} ✍️  New version 999.9.9-package.3 written to {project-name}/package.json
-        {project-name} ✍️  Applying new version 999.9.9-package.3 to 1 package which depends on {project-name}
 
 
         "name": "@proj/{project-name}",
@@ -201,12 +203,6 @@ describe('nx release - independent projects', () => {
         "scripts": {
 
 
-        "dependencies": {
-        -     "@proj/{project-name}": "0.0.0"
-        +     "@proj/{project-name}": "999.9.9-package.3"
-        }
-
-
         NX   Staging changed files with git