fix: Reduce timeout of waiting in queue from 15 minutes to 5 minutes and rephrase the log a bit (#2084)

* feat: add public api to stream writer to set the maximum wait time

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* modify back the readme change from owl post processor

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* fix: Reduce the timeout to 5 minutes for the requests wait time in queue.

Since in write api server side we have total timeout of 2 minutes, it
does not make sense to wait 15 minutes to determine whether we have met
dead connection, let's reduce the timeout here

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@@ -50,7 +50,7 @@ If you are using Maven without the BOM, add this to your dependencies:
 If you are using Gradle 5.x or later, add this to your dependencies:
 
 ```Groovy
-implementation platform('com.google.cloud:libraries-bom:26.12.0')
+implementation platform('com.google.cloud:libraries-bom:26.13.0')
 
 implementation 'com.google.cloud:google-cloud-bigquerystorage'
 ```

google-cloud-bigquerystorage/src/main/java/com/google/cloud/bigquery/storage/v1/ConnectionWorker.java

@@ -75,7 +75,7 @@ class ConnectionWorker implements AutoCloseable {
    * We will constantly checking how much time we have been waiting for the next request callback
    * if we wait too much time we will start shutting down the connections and clean up the queues.
    */
-  static Duration MAXIMUM_REQUEST_CALLBACK_WAIT_TIME = Duration.ofMinutes(15);
+  static Duration MAXIMUM_REQUEST_CALLBACK_WAIT_TIME = Duration.ofMinutes(5);
 
   private Lock lock;
   private Condition hasMessageInWaitingQueue;
@@ -321,7 +321,7 @@ public void run() {
   }
 
   private void resetConnection() {
-    log.info("Reconnecting for stream:" + streamName + " id: " + writerId);
+    log.info("Start connecting stream: " + streamName + " id: " + writerId);
     if (this.streamConnection != null) {
       // It's safe to directly close the previous connection as the in flight messages
       // will be picked up by the next connection.
@@ -344,7 +344,7 @@ public void run(Throwable finalStatus) {
                 doneCallback(finalStatus);
               }
             });
-    log.info("Reconnect done for stream:" + streamName + " id: " + writerId);
+    log.info("Finish connecting stream: " + streamName + " id: " + writerId);
   }
 
   /** Schedules the writing of rows at given offset. */