fix(lambda): configuring log retention fails on 70+ Lambdas (#31340)

When the Log Retention Lambda runs massively parallel (on 70+ Lambdas at the same time), it can run into throttling problems and fail.

Raise the retry count and delays:

- Raise the default amount of retries from 5 -> 10
- Raise the sleep base from 100ms to 1s.
- Change the sleep calculation to apply the 60s limit *after* jitter instead of before (previously, we would take a fraction of 60s; now we're taking a fraction of the accumulated wait time, and after calculating that limit it to 60s).

Fixes #31338.

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Author: rix0rrr

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