fix(batch): remove default optimal for arm based instance types and add error checks (#31510)

### Issue # (if applicable)

Closes #31148

### Reason for this change
When adding an arm-based instance, optimal instance is set by default which consists of an x86-based instance. This causes errors since arm and x86 instances can't be mixed together.

### Description of changes
- useOptimalInstanceClasses is set to false for all arm-based instances
- Throws error when trying to mix x86 and arm instances
  - Case 1: Instantiating the class
  - Case 2: addInstanceClass and addInstanceType functions
- Warning useOptimalInstanceClasses is being set to false for arm-based instances

### Description of how you validated changes
- Unit test where optimal doesn't get added for arm-based instances
- Unit tests to display errors when instantiating the class
- Unit tests to display errors when addInstanceClass and addInstanceType is adding mixed instances
- Unit tests to display warning for arm based instances

### Checklist
- [x] My code adheres to the [CONTRIBUTING GUIDE](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md) and [DESIGN GUIDELINES](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/docs/DESIGN_GUIDELINES.md)

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Author: 1kaileychen

packages/@aws-cdk-testing/framework-integ/test/aws-batch/test/integ.managed-compute-environment.js.snapshot/BatchManagedComputeEnvironmentTestDefaultTestDeployAssertD4528F80.assets.json

@@ -986,6 +986,112 @@
     "UpdatePolicy": {}
    }
   },
+  "noOptimalInstancesForARMSecurityGroup7157B016": {
+   "Type": "AWS::EC2::SecurityGroup",
+   "Properties": {
+    "GroupDescription": "batch-stack/noOptimalInstancesForARM/SecurityGroup",
+    "SecurityGroupEgress": [
+     {
+      "CidrIp": "0.0.0.0/0",
+      "Description": "Allow all outbound traffic by default",
+      "IpProtocol": "-1"
+     }
+    ],
+    "VpcId": {
+     "Ref": "vpcA2121C38"
+    }
+   }
+  },
+  "noOptimalInstancesForARMInstanceProfileRole926AEEC5": {
+   "Type": "AWS::IAM::Role",
+   "Properties": {
+    "AssumeRolePolicyDocument": {
+     "Statement": [
+      {
+       "Action": "sts:AssumeRole",
+       "Effect": "Allow",
+       "Principal": {
+        "Service": "ec2.amazonaws.com"
+       }
+      }
+     ],
+     "Version": "2012-10-17"
+    },
+    "ManagedPolicyArns": [
+     {
+      "Fn::Join": [
+       "",
+       [
+        "arn:",
+        {
+         "Ref": "AWS::Partition"
+        },
+        ":iam::aws:policy/service-role/AmazonEC2ContainerServiceforEC2Role"
+       ]
+      ]
+     }
+    ]
+   }
+  },
+  "noOptimalInstancesForARMInstanceProfile37BE9D32": {
+   "Type": "AWS::IAM::InstanceProfile",
+   "Properties": {
+    "Roles": [
+     {
+      "Ref": "noOptimalInstancesForARMInstanceProfileRole926AEEC5"
+     }
+    ]
+   }
+  },
+  "noOptimalInstancesForARMF146AA4D": {
+   "Type": "AWS::Batch::ComputeEnvironment",
+   "Properties": {
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+     "Ec2Configuration": [
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+       },
+       "ImageType": "ECS_AL2"
+      }
+     ],
+     "InstanceRole": {
+      "Fn::GetAtt": [
+       "noOptimalInstancesForARMInstanceProfile37BE9D32",
+       "Arn"
+      ]
+     },
+     "InstanceTypes": [
+      "a1.large",
+      "m6g"
+     ],
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+     "MinvCpus": 0,
+     "SecurityGroupIds": [
+      {
+       "Fn::GetAtt": [
+        "noOptimalInstancesForARMSecurityGroup7157B016",
+        "GroupId"
+       ]
+      }
+     ],
+     "Subnets": [
+      {
+       "Ref": "vpcPrivateSubnet1Subnet934893E8"
+      },
+      {
+       "Ref": "vpcPrivateSubnet2Subnet7031C2BA"
+      }
+     ],
+     "Type": "EC2"
+    },
+    "ReplaceComputeEnvironment": false,
+    "State": "ENABLED",
+    "Type": "managed",
+    "UpdatePolicy": {}
+   }
+  },
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    "Type": "AWS::EC2::SecurityGroup",
    "Properties": {